We are all born in the same way. We all end our existence on different ages and in a different way. And nobody knows clearly when can that happen or how can that happen. It just happens. But does it just happen, really? Is it that simple to say that somebody else, someone unknown controls our faith and designs our timeline? Is it that simple to say that there is one global architect that knows our destiny and we don’t have a say in it? Especially since faith and destiny are vague words and they don’t mean much.
It’s surely much more complex than that. We all take decisions in our lives based on many many different visible and hidden or subconscious factors. Like gems, these decisions pop out of nowhere and lead our lives. But once again it can’t be out of thin air and it must be dependable. Each of our actions is connected to another in life. Whether we are aware of that or not, they do. And not many people think of that. Or better they don’t want to be bothered. Because they simplify life. They don’t like getting out of the box and they fall in the common principles and rules. That’s why stereotypes exist. That’s why people are more and more stressed and more and more worried. And yes the genie in the locker room that’s why more and more people are having depression and anxiety. A mental illnesses that unfortunately I never understood or I am refusing to understand. Yes I know that life is difficult hence the topic of this post, but we need to be more confident. And believe more in ourselves. Not close ourselves no matter what goes in life. Yes, no matter what goes in life. Whether we didn’t have a good childhood, whether we don’t have money at some moment, whether we don’t have a job at the moment, whether we are lonely, whether we didn’t have sex yesterday and that day before that it all doesn’t matter. Whatever happened it is behind us. We all are striving to become better. Then why sulk and stay closed? Why hurt ourselves and not open and talk about our problems? We all have that one person in our life that we can trust. And if don’t we should make it, because there is nothing better than telling someone else about everything that is going on. Over a beer or over a whiskey.
We are living in a society that instead of enjoying life and taking risks, exploring everything around us, constantly craving new information we hide from it. Like it’s the devil. But yet, somehow everyone knows everything. Instead of doing the exact opposite of that, we satisfy with the minorities in life. And blame it on life. Follow the patterns and then complain. Create a family because it’s the norm and then divorce. Don’t study and then complain you don’t have a good job. Don’t do sports and then complain you aren’t food. Don’t take care of your diet and complain you are obese. But blame the others and life because it’s easier.
Whatever we decide in life it’s our choice. We must see it from all the sides. All the time. From as many perspectives as possible at the moment. In moments of fear. In moments of difficulties and also beauties. Not satisfy with the norms. Because norms create false peace that can brake at any moment because they make life and us fragile and not secure. Do something different. Something that you like, because doing something that you don’t wouldn’t make much sense, but different. That’s the beauty of life. We can’t be all the same. We can’t follow the same straight line and think about our individualistic role that is copied from the others. We must explore it and create our own rules and support the common point. Which is making this chance of life that was given to us better for all of us. Unite the timelines and connect between each not disconnect.
And not be afraid of that timeline and creating it. Because that makes life intrinsic and enjoyable. Simple isn’t it?
Controlled stranger 